Monday, June 30, 2008

WEDDING ANNIVERSARY '08

On 27th June, dawned the completion of another fascinating life together.
Our Wedding Anniversary.
I know I've been married to the same man for 3 years in a row now. That is marvelous. It is very inexpensive.
Our morning started with getting up early and having finished shower, prepared prasads for prayer.
We completed our morning prayers in an auspicious manner with MYSORE PAK(from India) , MILK, SUNDAL as NEIVEDHYAM.
Ravi prefered to take sundal for lunch. After he left, I decided to wrap up the surprise I had bought for him. DIGITAL PHOTO WALLET & LITTLE REMINDER KEY CHAIN.
I know these gifs means nothing when compared to his affection. But I felt he deserves an appreciation for his wonderful role as HUSBAND.
At 11 am, there was a knock on the door. I opened to see a FEDEX guy outside with a huge box.
SURPRISE from NJ!!!
KarthiBharathi from New Jersey had ordered for Roses to reach us on this day. 
I recieved this wonderful pot of yellow roses..all cute and cuddly.
Ravi had promised he'll leave office by 4 pm to take me to the temple.
Finally he came home by 5 pm and guess what??
He surprised with me with a bouquet of RED ROSES!!!
What a ROSE day was it today!! I handed him my surprise and he was equally shocked!
Off we left to LIVERMORE to recieve blessing from the SHIVA VISHNU Temple.
We had a very good Darshan even during its closing time. The Venakatachalapathy was being put to nap and the finishing darshan was really soul soothing.
With a couple of shots taken outside the temple,we left that place by 8.15 pm.
The cute Scion of ours,stopped in our favourite restaurant, SWATHI'S where we had a contending dinner.
The Day winded with us watching VASOOL RAJA MBBS @ home.




On this wonderful note, I'd like to share some tips that leads us to a long lasting realationships.
HAVING A HAPPY MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK...BELIEVE ME!!
Show your sweetie that they’re worthy of being loved. In other words, they should never feel like they’re the second choice in your life.  They’re your best friend, so treat them that way.  Also, never stop believing in them.
Have a forgiving heart and don’t carry a grudge or harbor resentment for a long period of time. They may have done something to hurt your feelings, but once you’ve accepted their apology, let it go.
BOTH of you should take care of your children. It’s not one person’s job. It’s a partnership. Your children should feel loved by bothparents – and know that they can come to either of you for help or guidance without fear or shame.
Keep challenging each other. Help each other face your fears and insecurities, and support your growth as individuals. If you’re always willing to try new things - and new experiences - you’ll never get bored with each other.
Appreciate the time you spend APART from each other. Once you recognize that both of you need a little space from time to time, homecomings will become that much sweeter.
Finally, never quit on each other. In a study of people married more than 20 years, scientists surveyed a variety of obstacles and negative circumstances the couples faced. Those who stayed together – and stayed happy – managed to reach deep down inside, and find the strength to hang in there until things changed for the better. It was quite a mood boost when they discovered that they still had the love of their life beside them to celebrate with.
So LIVE a long happy life together like now, like always!!!


2 comments:

  1. Hey..Saratha..good one. No wonder you are married for 3 yrs :)

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  2. hi saratha akka.. could u find me who im? if u not, ask ur sis.ur blog is very nice.. belated wishes for ur wedding anniversary :)

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